At the risk of being impolite, we often remain quiet, possibly to avoid a challenging conversation or even an argument. Are we sacrificing our beliefs, values, or faith to avoid conflict and maintain peace by staying silent?
One of our Christian principles is to combine honesty with compassion. In his letter to the Ephesians, Apostle Paul encourages believers to grow in maturity and unity. “ Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of Him who is the head, that is, Christ” (Ephesians 4:16).
“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing” (1 Thessalonians 5:11).
“To slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone. Speak truth in love, encourage, build each other up, and always be gentle” (Titus 3:2). These truths, plus light from the Holy Spirit will guide our conversations, even the difficult ones.
What does the Bible say about hearing the truth in love?
“Let a righteous man strike me—it is a kindness; let him rebuke me—it is oil for my head; let my head not refuse it” (Psalm 141:5).
We should welcome correction from the righteous as kindness, bringing us back to the truth. Refusing it is a missed opportunity to grow in maturity and unity as instructed by Paul. Responsibility is shared between the speaker and the listener. Together, we must pray, seek the truth, and lean on God’s word. Then we can approach these conversations or situations with the desired outcome of peace, rather than remaining silent and sacrificing who we are as Christians.
“Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” ( John 8:32)
– Kim Snyder
Christ Fellowship