Perhaps two of the more difficult words to hear when you are bursting with tears are, “DON’T CRY.” That suggests we aren’t allowed to freely express ourselves by simply letting the tears flow. Let’s be honest, shedding a bucket of tears can be a great release of our emotions.
Why are we often told not to process our feelings through tears? Let’s explore.
My dad was the first to tell me, “Don’t cry!” He couldn’t bear to see his little girl upset. If the tears dried, the hurt was gone… or so he thought. I believe we can all relate to that kind of thinking.
Psalm 56:8 says, “Record my misery; list my tears on your scroll — are they not in your record?” From this verse, we can be certain of God’s awareness of our tears and knowledge of our pain and suffering. It emphasizes God’s attentiveness to our emotions and experiences. Jesus indeed collects our tears in a bottle, what a beautiful and comforting image.
Rend Collective is a worship band from Northern Ireland, known for their biblically inspired lyrics and folk-influenced Celtic music. Their song, “Weep with Me” is a lament, pleading “Lord, will you weep with me”?
The lyrics continue to invite God to be present, to join in the pain and suffering, with the promise that even in the darkest moments, we will praise Him. He will weep with us. That is His promise.
The song reminds me of my earthly father’s protection and my heavenly Father’s love. My tears are a testament to His compassion, empathy, and presence. Next time you are told not to cry, leave those tear stains on your cheeks, and invite that person to weep with you. I guarantee the Lord will join you!
~ Kim Snyder
Christ Fellowship